Can I interest the boy?)
Hi. I am 17 years old. Sometime in February I met a boy in VK, we began to communicate, he was interested in me, and I, as it were, didn’t really, until July we communicated with him, while never walking. And yes, this boy is 20 years old. Then a moment of surprise came when I called him to go for a walk. He didn’t call me that often, but there were some problems and we didn’t see each other. And when we met, my eyes flashed, honestly, I saw him and almost drowned in him. I was so glad that I saw him. After that, we began to walk every day, for the first days he seemed not to pay attention to me After that, he began to hold my hand, hug, well, I naturally everything would be fine, lay my head on his shoulder. But as before, we do not communicate in VK, he sent me hearts before bed, wished Good Morning and something sweet, but now there is none. During this time that we walked, I realized that I like him. As he forgot to go out on his phone from his VC, and when I started to go out, I saw that he was talking to girls and sending them hearts. How do I get him more and more interested. True, I have minuses in my life. I'm not pretty, when I was little, I broke my nose, and now he is not like everyone else, I do not have a perfect figure. Do you think I can do something with him? And I wanted to add, we are walking, well, let's say a boy that I like (Maxim), so he takes a friend (Vanya) and I take a girlfriend (Vika) After 2 festivals, Vika started to introduce herself, that is, she began to let herself be slapped by the pope, Vanya did everything. And when I saw it all, I could not restrain myself and said Vic, that's enough to behave like this, you don't know him at all, we only walk for 3 days together. Why do you behave like this? You behave like a whore. And I left. Max came up and told why I said all this, I told him Because I can not watch my friend turns into a whore. After that, Max hugged me and said, “I am very glad that you are not so” Do you think I did everything right?
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Answered July 19, 2017 13:58
Hi Violla! I read your story. You shouldn't hold on to this boy too much, you obviously take him more seriously than he does to you.When a person tries to interest him with all his might, and this is evident, on the contrary, he internally repels, it is felt. In boys, everything is arranged in this respect simply: if a girl really likes it seriously, if she falls in love, then the interest is visible and noticeable, you don’t have to call her specifically. This is a natural interest in a natural real person. You yourself write that he initially didn’t pay much attention to you, the initiative comes from you + he writes romantic messages to others, and you know about it. He has a frivolous attitude towards you, not such an interest as you have towards him. There are, of course, those girls who win the sympathy of the one they like, but personally I don’t see in this situation something particularly serious on his part to you. He generally treats you well, but he doesn’t burn, so you shouldn’t get too attached and forcefully sympathize - then you can get very attached and regret it. Be sensible, look objectively at how he treats you in reality (things and emotions speak about this), and if you are satisfied with what he gives you without your attempts to achieve something more, be with him. If not, then it is better not to make any plans, not to take excessive initiative.Be natural, be yourself, maintain a good relationship with him, give him the initiative, and you will see and understand everything) When there are living and natural feelings, it’s not difficult for anyone in a couple - both are interesting and good, and there are no third ones. I recommend not to bother much, to be natural and observant. And if it does not work out - don’t worry: it’s not the last one you like, it will be more, and it’s not commonplace, but the truth of life. Maybe further and better)
Answered on December 20, 2017 01:58
If you personally have difficulty communicating - use special dating sites like this one to improve your communication skills. And the boy needs to show perseverance and treats every woman as his own man, with a sense of respect and understanding.