How to recognize adultery?
Here we will offer you several options for recognizing the betrayal of a husband or wife, a girl or a boy. Of course, it’s good to trust your loved one, but if his behavior has changed beyond recognition, if he began to devote you much less time than it was before, this is a serious reason to think.
How to recognize the betrayal of a wife or husband
This is the safest and, at the same time, a good method for those who can observe. Look carefully at how your beloved or beloved behaves. Has anything changed in your relationship? Maybe he or she has become more interested in other things, and in relation to you, he shows much less attention or speaks colder than before? It often happens that your half, coming home, either turns off the phone, or, on the contrary, spends a lot of time with it at home. If this has always happened before, there is nothing terrible about it. But if before the phone was lying quietly on, and it was used quite rarely, this is not a very good signal.The same with the computer - if you notice that your beloved (s) runs to him headlong, barely coming home and having undressed, but before this was not observed, be prepared for unpleasant surprises.
Look at his or her attitude towards you. Did he or she become more irritable, raise his voice, or, on the contrary, avoid communication? And before that, everything was different? In this case, it is not necessary to immediately "flog a fever", you can just watch for some time. After all, the reasons for this behavior can be very different, and it is not necessary that someone has your half. Perhaps he or she has some serious problems at work that I don’t want to talk about so far, so as not to upset you. In this case, it is worth asking gently what happened. If this is true, then they will tell you about it, let it be confused and omitting details, but they will. If he or she is lying, then you too will probably feel a lie. But in any case, you should not immediately resort to radical measures, to drop everything and leave with a shout: "And I loved you (s)!" Do not say anything, go develop, think and then make a decision.
In general, this method is similar to the first, but here you need to pay attention to more specific things. For example, your wife goes, as she says, "hang out with her friends", while she herself puts on a frank dress and does a chic make-up for herself, which had never been seen before. And then just decided to go to a beauty salon before the trip, to do expensive manicure and pedicure. And your husband said he went on a hike, but he did not take the necessary things and dressed as if he was leaving not for nature, but for work. Change? Maybe. Pay attention to their behavior, and how they will justify why you were voiced just such a version.
Now about the interests. Your boyfriend became interested in painting or literature for no reason, for no reason, and he used to confuse Malevich with Repin or Dostoevsky with Tolstoy. Where does such a craving for beauty come from? It is good if there are new friends who introduce your beloved to art, or he himself began to drag you to museums and read classics in the evenings, telling you stories. And if it is not? Think about it. It’s the same if your girlfriend suddenly began to listen to Bach or Telemann, although she used to include only Hands Up.If at the same time she began to take you to the philharmonic or she had new friends interested in classics - everything is in order. If not, this is a reason to think. Well, if your halves do not stand still, tend to develop and carry you along. However, you need to understand where this interest originated and how sincere it is. Moreover, if before the range of interests was quite narrow.
I will say right away - this way, how to recognize adultery, is not recommended for use and is only suitable if you are 100% sure that you are being changed. In essence, this is covert surveillance. You climb into a mobile phone, ICQ, e-mail, pockets of your husband or wife, watch him from the entrance to the place where he went, hire a person to be followed. Just think about it: if your loved ones don't change you, how will you look then yourself? Even if they don’t know about it ... And if they do, they will add to the torments of conscience a deserved and, most likely, very strong resentment from an innocent person. Therefore, do not be humiliated before this, do not take any steps in the heat of the moment and then, perhaps, you yourself will be told about treason, if it took place, or you yourself will understand everything.